Long Distance Relationship

From My Experience , I have strategy for stand in long distace relationship . My Bf is from Japan and I'm from Indonesia . :)

• Trust. No secrets & no lies. I believe in Karma. So if you do something behind his back, in future, your other half will do it to you too.


• Communication. (Funny enough, I'm the one who has not much to say over the phone...lol) A distance relationship is really difficult to sustain and fragile... Remember to keep the spice over the phone. Distance relationships get boring on a faster level... Always give him something positive to look forward to. If you fill the conversation with laughter, wouldn't he die for more? :)


• Be careful when quarrelling. Never go to bed angry. My Bf and I are like North and South. Different views, opinions, etc. But when we quarrel, we remind ourselves to remain cool and calm in our voices. If we are too mad, we would say, "I'm angry right now. I need 10mins to cool down. I'll call you then." Cos when you are angry, you may say things you don't mean to say. And you wouldn't' want that to happen.

As for my Bf and I, we are still on a journey. But I look forward to the chance to realize whether it will truly work out with my Bf in the long run.

Cos for some, they ironically work out better being apart. :)